Sometimes, in the quiet moments it can be easy to get discouraged. In fact, we all have moments when the day calms down to a very dull roar and little loneliness might creep in. It’s interesting with me being a medium, coming into contact with as many beings as I do, and having my ancestors around me maybe you’d think loneliness wouldn’t exactly be an issue for me. In a sense you’re right! There are days where I’m begging for some quiet, and then there are others when I could be in a room full of people and feel like I am the only person there. We all have moments like these, psychic or not, but there is a reason I wanted to write this. I know that someone out there on their tablet, phone or computer is reading this. To each individual reader, I wrote this for you because there is something that you need to know.
To the Queen or King reading this right now, you are not alone.
Say it with me: I am not alone.
Whether you can sense them or not, you have ancestors, spirit guides, and angels surrounding you. We all do! However, we all have moments where even when we are around physical beings we can feel lonely. It is okay to acknowledge these feelings. In fact, I encourage you to do so. Honor your feelings. We live in a society where we are conditioned to believe that we need to put on a mask and be tough. Many of us have been hardened by experiences that have led us to believe that being vulnerable makes us weak. It doesn’t.
Acknowledging, displaying and communicating your emotions is one of the strongest things you can do. It’s okay to tell someone that you’re feeling sad or lonely. It’s okay to reach for a family member and say, “I need a hug!” Trust me, I do it all the time. I wasn’t always that way though. I used to stuff my emotions deep inside from everyone I cared about. I never dealt with my emotions until I was ready to burst, and, in the long run, I was hurting myself and those I cared about. The more vulnerable I allow myself to be, the more I allow myself to grow.
Allow yourself to grow today. Allow yourself to accept love today.
Love yourself today.
When I’m feeling lonely I may reach out to a family member, friend, or partner. When I’m having some trouble crawling out of my shell, I sit in a quiet space and reach out to my ancestors, guides and angels. For me, this is a lot easier. If you aren’t psychic, make yourself comfortable. I would say put on some music and close your eyes, but I’ve found that blocking out all the noise of the world is a good way to go. However, music is never a bad thing, and neither is silence. For readers that may associate silence with sadness, think of this space as a way to allow your loved ones (because these beings and guides do love you) to enter and be with you. Allow yourself to relax, and either out loud or in your head reach out to your guides, ancestors, and angels around you. It doesn’t have to be formal or grandiose, but acknowledging their presence in the first place can help you nourish a connection with them.
From Archangel Michael: Write About Your Thoughts and Feelings